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New Marriage, Same Couple: Don’t Let Your Worst Days Be Your Last Days

Josh & Katie Walters

“For better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health.” We say those words and mean them. Until we don’t. This is a book about creating a different, better, new kind of marriage with the exact same person—no matter how dire the circumstances—with vision, commitment, and hope in the Lord.

Remember those early days of love? When your heart felt all fluttery, and you saw your person through rose-colored glasses? They could do no wrong. You were going to have the most beautiful life with big adventures and lots of sex. Of course, everyone says marriage is work, you knew that. But that was okay; you could get through anything together. It was going to be great.

Until it wasn’t.

Something happened. Or maybe nothing happened. Maybe it was one big something, or a lot of little somethings over many years that landed you in a marriage you hardly recognize. For Josh and Katie Walters, it was a big something: infidelity. Now they counsel couples who find themselves exactly where they were: lost, hopeless, and unsure of how to fix their marriage.

This book lays out the principles Josh and Katie learned in that season when God healed and restored their marriage. This process is broken into four parts and is an acronym for the word STAY:

  • S—start with you. (Discovering that when one person changes, the entire relationship changes.)
  • T—take quitting off the table. (Bringing your whole self to the solution and not checking out mentally and emotionally.)
  • A—allow others to be a part of your journey. (Trusting the right people, in the right ways, at the right time.)
  • Y—yield to vision. (Looking past what is and imagining what could be.)

New Marriage, Same Couple is a book about hope. It’s about how to create a brand-new marriage with your spouse, whether you’ve been married for a short time, or for decades.

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New Marriage, Same Couple: Don’t Let Your Worst Days Be Your Last Days – Workbook

Josh & Katie Walters

“For better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health.” We say those words and mean them. Until we don’t. This is a book about creating a different, better, new kind of marriage with the exact same person—no matter how dire the circumstances—with vision, commitment, and hope in the Lord.

Remember those early days of love? When your heart felt all fluttery, and you saw your person through rose-colored glasses? They could do no wrong. You were going to have the most beautiful life with big adventures and lots of sex. Of course, everyone says marriage is work, you knew that. But that was okay; you could get through anything together. It was going to be great.

Until it wasn’t.

Something happened. Or maybe nothing happened. Maybe it was one big something, or a lot of little somethings over many years that landed you in a marriage you hardly recognize. For Josh and Katie Walters, it was a big something: infidelity. Now they counsel couples who find themselves exactly where they were: lost, hopeless, and unsure of how to fix their marriage.

This book lays out the principles Josh and Katie learned in that season when God healed and restored their marriage. This process is broken into four parts and is an acronym for the word STAY:

  • S—start with you. (Discovering that when one person changes, the entire relationship changes.)
  • T—take quitting off the table. (Bringing your whole self to the solution and not checking out mentally and emotionally.)
  • A—allow others to be a part of your journey. (Trusting the right people, in the right ways, at the right time.)
  • Y—yield to vision. (Looking past what is and imagining what could be.)

New Marriage, Same Couple is a book about hope. It’s about how to create a brand-new marriage with your spouse, whether you’ve been married for a short time, or for decades.

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Guide to Grief

By Josh & Katie Walters

At some point in your life you will experience great pain. The loss of a loved one, a devastating diagnosis, an unexpected career turn, the list goes on and on. Great pain often leads to great grief which can erode intimacy. The guide to grief provides a playbook for your pain that will bring you closer in hard times.

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New Marriage, Same Person

by Josh & Katie Walters

NMSP is Josh and Katie’s new book dropping in Jan of 2024. Have you ever been through a hard season of marriage? Find yourself there now? Or, have you stopped growing in some area of your relationship and find yourself daydreaming of a new marriage, with the same person?! NMSP tells the story of Josh and Katie’s marriage, how it nearly unraveled and the principles they learned to bring about new life in dead places. You don’t have to wait until the book is released to learn from their journey! Join the launch team and you will receive sample chapters, receive exclusive video content related to the book via email and be invited for in person and online meet-ups.

Videos

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3 Effective Ways to Fight For Your Marriage

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Gentleness Is The Vibe

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Seacoast At Home | Part 3

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Abandonment

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Mother’s Day 2019

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Finding Fullness

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Restoring Relationships

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Jesus On Judging Others

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Salt And Light

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Growing through Pain

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Better at 70

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  • Happy wedding T + T!!! I have been thinking about what I would write to you in a wedding card way to long 😂 so here it is from me to you:

Dearest Taylor and Travis,

Thank you. I believe your love story, like all great ones, is changing the world. 

I want you to know as someone who has been married 24 years, has a court in the back yard and a whole block of children looking like him.
Your wish list is full of wisdom and truly is the good stuff of life! 

However, it will cost you as much as life of a showgirl. Make no mistake.
The alter is where you come to die, dedicate and find a new life of your dreams. Make this a daily practice.

Cheering you on forever, Josh + Katie
  • When you’re weird or desperate enough to come up with your grandparents names at 30 years old….and you get to use them way sooner than you dreamed!

Vision is key to an abundant marriage. Comment “name me” and we will DM you a short and sweet grandparent name guide.

We are leading a couple through a vision retreat this coming weekend and we would love to take you along with us. Hopefully it will give you some questions you can use for your own!
  • Growing in friendship with your spouse is one of the strongest predictors of long-term marital happiness.

When we stopped trying to fix everything…. and started rebuilding friendship. That changed everything.

1. Turn Toward Each Other in Small Moments

Respond to each other’s “bids for connection” yes even sending and responding to reels your spouse sends 😉small attempts to engage like sharing a story, asking a question, making a joke, or reaching for affection.

When you consistently turn toward instead of ignoring or dismissing, friendship deepens over time.

2. Stay curious about each other’s inner world: stresses, dreams, fears, goals, favorite things, current pressures.

People change over time. Friendship grows when you keep learning your spouse instead of assuming you already know them.
Ask:

* What’s been weighing on you lately?
* What are you excited about right now?
* How can I support you this week?

3. Prioritize Positive Shared Experiences

Research shows couples need regular positive interactions to buffer stress and conflict. Friendship is strengthened through enjoyment, novelty, laughter, and teamwork.
Examples:

* Walk after dinner
* Coffee on the porch
* Cooking together
* Trying something new
* Inside jokes and playful texting

Marriage often weakens not from one big event, but from neglected friendship. Romance may fluctuate, but friendship can be built daily.
  • When your spouse walks in, or walks out, pause what you’re doing. Look up. Move toward them. Kiss hello. Kiss goodbye.

It sounds small, but relationship research consistently shows that brief moments of connection build trust, security, and emotional closeness over time. Priority is often communicated in seconds, not speeches.

Stop. Drop. And roll (kiss). Small habit to keep the fire going! Do you and your spouse make an effort to do this?
Happy wedding T + T!!! I have been thinking about what I would write to you in a wedding card way to long 😂 so here it is from me to you: Dearest Taylor and Travis, Thank you. I believe your love story, like all great ones, is changing the world. I want you to know as someone who has been married 24 years, has a court in the back yard and a whole block of children looking like him. Your wish list is full of wisdom and truly is the good stuff of life! However, it will cost you as much as life of a showgirl. Make no mistake. The alter is where you come to die, dedicate and find a new life of your dreams. Make this a daily practice. Cheering you on forever, Josh + Katie
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When you’re weird or desperate enough to come up with your grandparents names at 30 years old….and you get to use them way sooner than you dreamed! Vision is key to an abundant marriage. Comment “name me” and we will DM you a short and sweet grandparent name guide. We are leading a couple through a vision retreat this coming weekend and we would love to take you along with us. Hopefully it will give you some questions you can use for your own!
3 days ago
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Growing in friendship with your spouse is one of the strongest predictors of long-term marital happiness. When we stopped trying to fix everything…. and started rebuilding friendship. That changed everything. 1. Turn Toward Each Other in Small Moments Respond to each other’s “bids for connection” yes even sending and responding to reels your spouse sends 😉small attempts to engage like sharing a story, asking a question, making a joke, or reaching for affection. When you consistently turn toward instead of ignoring or dismissing, friendship deepens over time. 2. Stay curious about each other’s inner world: stresses, dreams, fears, goals, favorite things, current pressures. People change over time. Friendship grows when you keep learning your spouse instead of assuming you already know them. Ask: * What’s been weighing on you lately? * What are you excited about right now? * How can I support you this week? 3. Prioritize Positive Shared Experiences Research shows couples need regular positive interactions to buffer stress and conflict. Friendship is strengthened through enjoyment, novelty, laughter, and teamwork. Examples: * Walk after dinner * Coffee on the porch * Cooking together * Trying something new * Inside jokes and playful texting Marriage often weakens not from one big event, but from neglected friendship. Romance may fluctuate, but friendship can be built daily.
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When your spouse walks in, or walks out, pause what you’re doing. Look up. Move toward them. Kiss hello. Kiss goodbye. It sounds small, but relationship research consistently shows that brief moments of connection build trust, security, and emotional closeness over time. Priority is often communicated in seconds, not speeches. Stop. Drop. And roll (kiss). Small habit to keep the fire going! Do you and your spouse make an effort to do this?
2 months ago
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